What this case is
Answer the five gatesSet each gate to yes or no, choose a verdict, and the reasoning for every gate appears here. There is no penalty for being wrong — the gates are where the learning is.
The three questions that sort almost everything. Does it show up nearly everywhere, or only in one relationship? Can the person choose another response when the first one fails? Has it been there since adolescence, or did it start six weeks ago? A pattern that is situational, flexible or new is not a personality disorder — it is a person under stress, and stress is treatable today.
The note, rewritten
After · described behaviour
Check a note on the left and its rewrite appears here, alongside a line on what each struck phrase was doing.
Why this is a safety intervention, not an etiquette rule. Once a verdict word enters a record, later clinicians assess less, believe less, and investigate physical complaints less. People carrying these labels have been sent home from emergency departments with untreated fractures and untreated sepsis. That is diagnostic overshadowing, and describing behaviour instead of character is the countermeasure you personally control.