Reference intakes. There is no RDA for total fat in adults. The National Academies set an Acceptable Macronutrient Distribution Range of 20–35% of total energy from fat for adults 19 years and older. Adequate Intakes are set for the two essential fatty acids: linoleic acid 17 g/day (men 19–50 y) and 12 g/day (women 19–50 y); α-linolenic acid 1.6 g/day (men 19 y and older) and 1.1 g/day (women 19 y and older). The Dietary Guidelines for Americans advise less than 10% of daily calories from saturated fat for ages 2 years and older, and keeping trans fat intake as low as possible. No Tolerable Upper Intake Level has been set for any of these.
Melting points are laboratory values for the pure fatty acid. Real foods are mixtures of many fatty acids, so a whole fat softens over a range rather than melting at one temperature. Nothing here is individual medical or dietary advice.